10 ways to have better relationship in 2019
Being in a loving relationship, this is all we want. A loving and caring relationship. A long lasting partnership. A bond that gets better and stronger over time. We wonder how. Having a better relationship requires efforts. It is not rocket science.
You have to keep things fresh, find time for each other and come up with ideas to surprise them and show them that they matter. This sounds really simple if you have the affection and care for your partner. You don’t have to be a scientist to find a way to show your love to your partner. To help you out we have round up 10 tips to have a better relationship with your partner.
Communication is the key to have a healthy relationship and what can be more effective way then listening to your partner. When you really allow yourself to listen, it not only makes good conversation but also lead to a good communication. Listen to your partner to understand not to judge.
2. Get over needing to be right
You don’t have to be right always neither does your partner. We all make mistakes and it is part of who we are. When you make mistake just simply accept it. Learning to say “I was wrong” is a skill worth learning. Same with your partner, don’t expect them to be perfect, learn to forgive them when they make mistakes.
3. Compliment and often
We always appreciate hearing good things from our significant others. It makes us more confident about ourselves. This is why it is very important to complement each other. No matter how they look or whatever they do, a simple good gesture can make a whole lot difference in their mood.
I love you simply, without problems or pride, I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, In which there is no I or You. – Pablo Neruda
4. Spend Quality time
In a relationship spending time together is very important. After a while in relationship we start getting busy in our daily routine and forget the significance of quality time our partner deserves. If every day is not possible then every weekend make a schedule for your partner,, a nice dinner or lunch or a movie just 2 of you and talk about your relationship, your day, your week. It will boost your relationship.
5. Let it go
Instead of keeping the grudge, learn to let it go. It will give you mental satisfaction. You cannot change the past or whatever happened there, just accept the outcome. No one is perfect, If you partner made mistake then just simple accept that they
are human and it is okay to make mistake, holding onto that just disturb your relationship.
6. Agree to disagree
This is one of the most important factors in long term relationship. As independent individuals, you both have own point of views in different issues. This is why some issues will be always unsolved. To avoid this to ruin your relationship learn to respect each other’s opinion. If it matters to your future, and you cannot come to a conclusion then consult with your parents and then decide
7. Don’t try to control
Your relationship is not a battle. Two people are choosing to be together. Both have their own identities, you do not have to act like you are taming a wild animal. You have to accept each other flows and appreciate the good qualities and let them be their original version.
8. Don’t forget about sex
In a long term relationship, work, stress and responsibilities can get into your sex life. Before you know it, you have been gone for months without getting busy. Don’t let this happen. Physical intimacy is as important as the emotional intimacy in a relationship.
So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard, we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me.. everyday. – The Notebook
9. Put Away your phone
When you are with your partner, give them your undivided attention. Don’t play or browse through your social media when you are two together. It is one of the most important things you can do.
10. Help each other
This is one of the easiest ways you can show effort in your relationship. Help your partner, whatever you can, help in cooking, organize their closet, organize the room etc. Just offer a helping hand.
In order to have a better relationship, you must accept your partner as they are, it will help you to understand them better and save your lots of time in thinking how to change them the way you wanted. Show your love, emotion and effort to your partner and help them whenever you can and you will have the better relationship you always expected. If these tips helped you, let us know you comment and suggestion.