In long term relationship, Partners sometime feels that are they really in right relationship because when they started it was all different, you were more excited, sometimes obsessed and easily could devote every spare moment to your beloved. All romance occurs freely. Nothing can be more exciting than spending time with your partner.
So what happened after quite some time, why things are not same as before? You love your partner all the same but though times everything seem to be different and you are not feeling it anymore. You are overwhelmed with your daily order of tasks and general commitments. And when your partner craving you, most probably you are sleeping rather than loving back. Simply watching tv appears to be more relaxing or attractive than having sex.
Every night you are sleeping in the same bed but the distance between you two are miles apart. You start wondering if you still know this person next to you, with whom you fall in love with whole heartedly. You start questioning your relationship and this can lead you to dangerous decisions.
There are many different methods to improve your relationship with your partner as every couples situation is unique. We have prepared some ways to keep your marriage alive by avoiding common relationship problems. The natural balance between relationship and romance expects regular work. Give time to each other, gratefulness and devotion keeps romance in marriage alive in long term relationship.
Feel free to show your love and affection
Write a note on the fridge door, in the cushion, inside the book your partner reads. Send short messages or love quotes can make them feel loved even from distance. Don’t forget to buy goodies your partner will adore. There is no need to buy overpriced ones, just a present for each other which will demonstrate that you thinking about your partner.
Be intimate with your partner
There are various ways to say I LOVE YOU and the best way to express it by spending quality time with each other. Instead of running out in routine madness in the morning, try to get up early and prepare breakfast together. Help each other in household chores during weekend. Don’t forget mouth to mouth pick in the kitchenette, smooch on the couch or having shower together.
Break the circle of routine
Don’t always follow the same routine; try to do something different in every month or in 3 months. Take a vacation near beach for a week which can help you and your partner to get a break from constant fatigue. Go to a place where you never been before or a place which you cherish most. The most important thing is whatever you do, you are doing it together.
I hope these suggestions can be useful for some but these are not accurate for every couple. There is no right way or tutorial to keep your romance alive. These are the basic methods you are use but you are open to experiment of your own and don’t forget to let us know which method helped you.