Don't try to force things to happen
Don’t try to force things to happen. You can’t force consistency. Can’t force attention. You can’t force effort, patience, understanding, honesty, loyalty, commitment, trust and you can’t force a connection. The love that used to be so great is no longer there. You cant force it to happen by forcing it , you are making things worse. You are only driving that person away from you.
You are only causing more distance between you two. You are building more resentment towards one another. You are only giving that person more reason to not care. You are only showing how controlling you can be. You are only implying how desperate you are. Don’t do that to the person you love, more importantly don’t do that to yourself. You are fighting to make things work and save the relationship but the truth is you are only disappointing yourself when things don’t meet the expectations you have set and that’ll only hurt you more.
Please don’t hurt yourself for someone who genuinely wouldn’t affected deeply if it were to end. Stop forcing love because its either there or nit isn’t.
You can take a nail and hammer and force the nail into a wall but in your thinking or emotions it is not good to force anything. You can force something temporarily as a quick fix but long term this fix not going to work. So you need to let go of it. If it doesn’t happen as you want it, then maybe there is something wrong. Well, maybe there is something missing, or may it not really meant for you.
If you think things doesn’t go as expected and feel bad, then remember, whatever happening there it’s only what you see. You don’t see the whole picture. You may think that guy/girl is perfect for you and why still they treating you bad, but you can’t see is there can be better person out there who can treat you way better.
Maybe there is actually something better coming towards you, it just needs more time, or different form or shape, Just say yes whatever thee is, and saying yes is another aspect of not forcing things. Say YES to whatever comes towards you without forcing. You have option to force things and make it worse or say YES to whatever future brings for you.